You are not going bald! (overcoming non-hereditary hair loss)

You are not going bald

Are you noticing that your hairbrush seems to contain more hair than usual? 

Are you pulling larger quantities of hair from your shower plug-hole? 

Is your ponytail diameter feeling thinner? 

Are hairs falling very easily from your head whenever you touch them? 

And is all of this making you feel panicked and worried that you are about to lose your hair entirely? 

Please be assured the hair loss you are experiencing and the feelings you have surrounding it is very common- all is not lost.  

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You are not going bald (overcoming non-hereditary hair loss)

I want to start this article by sharing my story of non-hereditary hair loss – in the hope, it will reduce your anxiety about your current situation…

I knew during pregnancy that due to a hormonal shift your hair would not shed.  I loved the thicker hair, other than the precious gift of a newborn child, it was the second thing I loved most about being pregnant.  But I knew the drill, around three months after a baby’s arrival, your hair begins to shed and you lose all of the hair that you hadn’t lost during your pregnancy.  It was three months after the birth of my second child and my hair started to shed and shed and then shed some more and then some more and then I became worried – very worried.

I became obsessed with hair loss.  Running my fingers through my hair constantly, every time aghast that yet more was falling out.  I didn’t want to step into the shower for fear I would wash all my hair away.  Waking up in a cold sweat at night, grasping at my hair just to make sure there was something still left.  I went to my GP, who informed me what I was experiencing was normal.  They said it’s just something that happened as we aged and to accept it.  This was very traumatic to me – I couldn’t accept it.  Whilst I was aware worrying about it was probably making the hair-loss worse, it was impossible not to worry.  I was so scared.

Other than my husband, I spoke to nobody about it.  I was good at putting my hair up to hide the problem.  I felt speaking about it would just add more energy to it.  There was already enough energy surrounding it to light up the national grid.  But I knew something wasn’t right.  This wasn’t the normal amount of postpartum shedding.  It was time to seek further professional help.  I called a trichologist. Explaining everything to the very calm and understanding lady on the other end of the phone.  Then very reassuringly, she uttered the only words I had needed to hear this entire time – don’t worry, you are not going bald.  

She advised me to revisit my GP and request a blood test.  In particular, she wanted to know my serum ferritin level.  Within two days I had a call from the GP informing me I had iron deficiency anaemia and needed a course of iron tablets.  Finally I felt like there was something that could be done.  Whilst I started the tablets, I also visited the trichologist who advised I had a scalp disorder known as Telogen effluvium.  It can be triggered by hormonal upsets (such as those caused by pregnancy) and also other factors such as improper nutrition and stress.  The great news – it was non-hereditary hair loss and could be reversed.  My trichologist was able to provide advice, give scalp treatments and basically hold my hand whilst my hair started to sort itself out.  

It took around one year before I felt confident enough to wear my hair loose again.  Nowadays (with some good hair practices in place) I have a full healthy head of hair, with new hairs making an appearance all the time.  

I hope this highlights to you that your current experience is only temporary – it can get better.

So, what to do now? 

If you have not done so yet it’s probably time to visit your GP.  It is normal to lose up to 100 hairs in a day.  It is also normal to experience sudden hair shedding around three months after giving birth.  If however, you feel the shedding is excessive and you are experiencing any other unexplained symptoms it is important to see a GP and request a blood test.  This will establish whether there are any underlying causes such as anaemia or thyroid issues etc, which will need to be treated with medication.  Additionally, if you are experiencing patches of baldness on your scalp (rather than the overall shedding I have described) the doctor will be able to refer you to a specialist.    

A non-hereditary hair loss condition such as Telogen effluvium is self-correcting. However, there are some measures you can take to help manage the shed and allow healthy new hair to flourish.

Ways to help you overcome your non-hereditary hair loss:

– Improve your diet –

This is always important and will help reduce the likelihood of any non-hereditary hair loss conditions returning.  You can visit a nutritionist, who can help with identifying your dietary needs and establish a plan.  If this is beyond your budget, there is a wealth of free dietary information available online.  I searched ‘how to reduce hair loss through diet’.  

Remember to consult your GP if you have any conditions or are taking any medications that may be affected by a change in your diet.  

– Exercise –

Exercise helps your body to produce chemicals known as endorphins.  These act as a natural sedative helping you feel more happy and relaxed.  This, in turn, reduces your stress levels – another factor that can contribute to hair loss.  Just remember to keep your exercise balanced and again to consult your GP if there are any health concerns that would make embarking on an exercise regime a risk for you.  

– Wash your hair frequently –

When you’re experiencing non-hereditary hair loss (or any type of hair loss for that matter), this act can be highly anxiety-inducing.  However, it’s actually one of the best things you can do to stimulate new hair growth.  Frequent hair washing encourages healthy hair as it stimulates the scalp and creates the perfect conditions for it to regrow.

You are not going bald (overcoming non-hereditary hair loss)

– Brush your hair before you wash it –

This was a piece of advice provided to me by my trichologist and is purely psychological but I found it immensely helpful in reducing the stress surrounding shower-time.  

– Use the right products –

You don’t need to panic-buy and drop hundreds of £’s (like I did) but you should ensure you are using products that will encourage your hair to grow.  I use sulphate-free shampoo.  Sulphate has been found to be one of the key culprits of hair loss and thinning hair by destroying hair follicles and inhibiting hair growth.  There are numerous brands to choose from but I recommend Living Proof Full shampoo* 

Keep styling products to a minimum to avoid build-up, I only use Percy & Reed Sensational No Oil Oil for Fine Hair* which is lovely and light and great for fine hair.  You should consider switching to a lighter-hold hairspray too.  

I’ve also recommended some other great products in Recommended:  Best Shampoos and Conditioners for fine hair

Additionally, I get regular salon treatments such as the Nioxin Derma Renew, basically, a facial for your scalp.  It claims to accelerate scalp surface regeneration through exfoliation and removal of build-up.  I just know that my scalp always feels cleaner and less itchy afterwards. 

If you don’t want to pay out for a salon scalp treatment, I recommend Tony Maleedy Juniper Scalp Therapy Shampoo, which was recommended to me by my trichologist.  Massage into wet hair and leave to work for a few minutes before rinsing off.  

– Turn the heat down –

If you can leave your hair au-naturel without the use of any heated appliances, great!  But if like me, that feels unachievable, try to minimise your use of the heated styling tools.  Or turn down the heat setting!  I switched my straighteners to a pair with a lower temperature.  However, for the majority of the time, I allowed my wavy hair to dry naturally before running a few well-placed barrel tong curls (on the lowest heat setting) throughout my head.  If you are able to wear your hair curly or wavy, it does help to give the impression of fuller locks.  

Discover more tips for adding volume in 5 Easy ways to add volume to fine hair

– Stop touching it –

I became obsessed and started running my fingers through my hair constantly to see how much would fall out.  The best way to combat this was to wear it up.  This again also helped psychologically as I saw less hair lying around the house.  Just remember to be gentle putting your hair up and use grips/ties that will not damage your hair.  Try using Invisibobble Traceless Hair Ring and Bracelet, which are suitable for all hair types.

– Make an appointment with a trichologist –

Trichologists are specialists in the study of the scalp and hair.  They know all there is to know about non-hereditary hair loss.  They will be able to look at your hair and scalp, diagnose a specific condition and offer products and treatments to help.  Yes, their services come at a cost, but I would not have coped half as well without mine.  They are a great source of support.  You can find a clinic local to you by searching on the Institute of Trichologists website

– Consider supplements –

If you’ve been advised you have low ferritin levels (but not low enough to warrant medically prescribed iron tablets) you will potentially benefit from a supplement.  These can help to raise your ferritin levels and maintain healthy hair growth.  When I finished the course of iron tablets prescribed by my doctor (and on the recommendation of my trichologist), I switched to Lamberts FLORISENE® supplements to help maximise my hair growth.  Remember supplements should only be taken on the advice of a specialist following blood tests.  

New Mum? Want to take the stress out of your beauty routine? Read: 10 Top Beauty Tips for New Mums & Mums-to-be

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Those are all the tips I can offer on overcoming non-hereditary hair loss – I really hope you find them helpful!  Although it can be hard, keep in mind when it comes to hair, results aren’t instant.  The good work you put in today will be seen BUT in a little while.  Just keep looking after yourself and your hair and you will see results.  Let me know if you have any questions or other advice to offer.  Good luck to you and your soon-to-be beautiful head of hair!

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